The 1 that got away:
The 1 that got away:
Good night Bahama Drama please keep me anonymous.
It’s been 4 years 1 dozen relationships later.
And I still haven’t found the perfect man.
But 4 years ago I did have someone in my life but they didn’t meet my expectations fully after 2 years of dating him.
He was to reserve and kept to himself all of the time reading these big computer programming books
trying to sell me this big dream that one day he will build some program that would make him rich
I never took him seriously when he talked like this as a matter of fact
most of the time I would cut him off by interrupting him in the act of telling me more about his dreams
Another thing is he just never seemed to be able to catch up to the standard of living and lifestyles
of other men that were always trying to win me over from him with their nice cars houses and beautiful apartments
that I would sometimes be on someone’s plate for the day as I duck my job to be with the guys that really had my attention.
My boyfriend had an old broke down car that made lots of noises and smoked like a train when it was in action on the road.
He couldn’t find a job for a year one time because really most companies would email him back stating that my boyfriend was overqualified for the positions.
So you can see he was also broke most of the time.
My family said that he was just a complete loser and from what I could see he sure was.
I mean he didn’t wear any kind name brand clothes or shoes like the successful men did that I creamed in my underwear
with the thought of how we did it on their tables floors beds car backseats and hotel room’s.
I must admit I was loose like a goose and funky like a monkey for fine ass niggas.
I would often hold out on sex with him because he really was an eyesore the whole time.
I was always looking outside of our relationship for some Prince Charming to sweep me off of my feet
away from my current nerdy bumb boyfriend.
And one day it actually happened.
I finally found the guy who had the money the car the house and looks my family loved my new choice
and they all ran up talks with him loving how cool he was and much better for me then what I currently have.
So me and this new guy decided to be a couple so I told my old boyfriend that it was over and left his heart on the ground
I really wasn’t checking for him at all or how he felt.
That’s been 4 years ago and 7 months after the new guy got tired of fucking me
he found someone else that was prettier than me more sexier than me and really had her shit together financially.
But he didn’t let me go immediately first he beat my ass a few times for what would have been overlooked by my X.
He made me feel so low before breaking up with me totally.
He sometimes would let his boys in the room while we were making out and he would tell me to do it with them for him if I really loved him.
He did this so much that I stop going by his house and eventually I knew that it was over.
I saw my X a couple of times over the year’s and he’s now married to one white bitch that looks like an American or something.
These white women always taking our good black men from us.
But anyway I must say he did look good in his clothes and his shoes was on point to.
I heard one of his friends say that he now works for one of the banks downtown as software developer for them.
WOW!
I still remember a little of what he tried to teach me though like int var and String means in programming because he wanted to teach it to me also
I really don’t know how I let the perfect man get away from me
because when I think back on my nerd boyfriend he actually loved me. He wasn’t perfect but he was true.
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