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My Daddy took my boyfriend

My Daddy took my boyfriend

Good morning Bahama Drama please share my story. Now normally I wouldn’t come to social media to air out my families dirty laundry but this is no ordinary situation here.

My step Dad has been married to my mom for 27 years this coming July and I have always held him in high regards especially when he advised me to try to patch things up with my biological father.

Advice that if I would have followed my instincts I would have ran from.

But all of my life this step father has been right about everything that he taught me until now.

I started calling my real dad again and then finally hanging out with his weird ass in different places finally introducing him to my boyfriend of two years now.

There was nothing unusual about it especially the introduction of the two it was quite normal as introducing two people can possibly be.

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Hold on, give me 5 minutes I have to go check my back beans on the stove boiling.
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Okay I’m back Now!

So after introducing my real dad to my boyfriend the three of us started to hang out occasionally. And my dad and my boyfriend seemed to hit it off with each other without a blip. I was so happy because

finally somebody in my family liked my boyfriend because my step Dad hated him and couldn’t seem to say why everytime I’d ask why does he hate Gary so much?

Most of the time his responses would lead to no real reasons to hate someone who you don’t even know.

But that’s how parents is be sometimes so I paid it no mind.

After about 4 and a half months of us 3 hanging out I got pregnant and this baby was draining all of my strength out of me so I really didn’t feel like going to certain places that the two of them would agree for us all to hang out at

so I became the party pooper of the pack to them. I would want to leave earlier than usual or not go. So with time the 2 of them became even closer

than like whenever me and my boyfriend would disagree about something and either of us would ask my biological father for a unbiased second opinion it would always go in favor of my boyfriend over me and vice versa with me vs my dad.

I started to really feel left out especially when I would hear about them hanging out without me by other people I almost felt as if I was betrayed by the 2 of them

so I soon started to voice my opinion about how they was making me feel but each time they would defend each other and play down my concerns.

calling me to dramatic and my boyfriend now labeling me to be a drama queen.

So in my pregnancy I began to close myself off from everyone and my step Dad started to notice this and he and I had a long daddy to daughter one evening where I told him everything that was going on between me and my boyfriend and how it felt like my biological father wasn’t making it any easier for me but instead it seemed like he was adding to the problem.

My step Dad gave me a hug as I was now in full tears and if my boyfriend and my biological father was here now they both would only say that I was in full drama queen mode right now

but my step Dad could see that I was really hurting and with me now carrying a baby inside of me he told me to go wash up and he would look into all of my concerns and handle it while giving me a cup of hot tea to sip on.

The following month passed and my step Dad said nothing else about what we had discussed or anything he and my mom was just babying me straight through and to tell you the truth being a only child I really liked it.

My baby daddy wasn’t calling me as much anymore to check up on me and the baby to see how we was doing and neither was my biological father calling or checking. This didn’t bother me much at the time though

because my parents and my other friends was now crowding me with a lot of love and I was again feeling myself.

One Saturday night my step Dad and mother came into my room saying that they had to talk to me about something important

I was scared. Saying okay asking what was it?

My mother said to my step Dad that we should open up the discussion with a prayer to our sovereign Jehovah God who’s wisdom supercedes any in heaven or on earth.

My step Dad had a big yellow envelope resting on my bed now. I saw it as they both walked into my room. As the prayer ended my eyes had been open up the whole time because I was scared and I had never done that before when anybody was praying in a group prayer but God forgive me I was scared.

My mom and stepdad asked how have I been feeling?

My heart continued to flutter still being faced with the unknown so I said I okay.

besides my parents never coming in my room to talk especially together for me this was very scary as I continued to make many guesses in my mind about what this could be about.

My step Dad reminded me that people will always let me down because of our imperfections but Jehovah God will always be there for me no matter what.

Nodding my head in agreement to what he was saying I still wanted to know what this was all about and what was in that giant envelope and was it for me?

Finally my step father said that he hired a private investigator to gather up information on my boyfriend because from what I had told him more than a month ago he said that it seemed to him that my boyfriend had lost all interest in me

and he could have been seeing another girl on me so he had him followed

and expecting to see him living a double life with another girl it was a real shocker to find out that the other girl was Jordan your father.

My mother with tears already pouring from her eye’s for me as she was gazing fully into my soul. My step Dad removed the pictures laying them on to the bed and the room that I was in all of a sudden got darker for me.

As the pictures of the 2 of them poured out upon my eyes I wept

seeing pictures of my own daddy making out with my baby daddy kissing hugged up over PI and everywhere knowing that I work over there.

I mean they were going everywhere romancing where the 3 of us hung out together at and said that we hated those places and would never go back there again.

But there the 2 of them were.

From that night I knew that I was going to abortion this baby inside of me but I couldn’t tell my parents.

They are both Jehovah’s witnesses and they wouldn’t understand. I’ve been talking to my friends and they have been bringing me all kinds of pills from A 2 Z and even bush medicine’s to make the baby come down.

Right now I don’t care about what the pain is gonna feel like I just want this thing out of me. I can’t have a baby from this kind of boy.

I could never forgive myself if I did. Please pray for me.

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