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I need some advice badly y’all

I need some advice badly y’all

Good morning , im puzzled/ lost and need some advice .

I’m a father of a handsome baby boy well at least I think it’s mines, now I’ll be straight forward cause I can’t ask for y’all help if I’m only saying my side or false information .

So this how my life got turned upside down … I was in a relationship with a beautiful young lady , Trip some would say so fast forward we did the nasty then boom she’s pregnant ,

when I first find out I was at Wendy’s and she was out this was a Saturday night..now from that day we already buy the test take it and everything and she send me the results and it was two lines so ise like your pregnant 🥺

this girl n her dumb self gin say no I’m not pregnant Ine see no two lines 🙁would if I can’t have a baby 😩 would if I can’t get pregnant 😭she started to panic and I was to work so I put that on mute until I was off ,

come to find out she going out or w.e so I ask my cousin about the pregnancy test and from she see that she say Yh she pregnant one shot ,didn’t even had to double look but uk I had to make sure.

So time nahh we in Wendy’s line I call her and was like wya your pregnant don’t drink no alcohol n I hang up 😅igl ise nervous cause this my first child ….

so fast forward she’s pregnant now I bought another test just to make sure and now her mommy is starting to catch on or w.e and find out she’s pregnant and went str8 to trying to force her to drink hot Guinness and bush medicine .

Now she wanted to keep the child but me igl at first ise like scooby when he see a ghost n try to call shaggy “ShAgGy GhOsT” 👹💨

Yh ise scared didn’t know wa to do so ise telling her kill the baby too , so couple weeks later her mommy realize she didn’t bleed or w.e so she make the bush tea wybe again

but den she refuses to drink it and she called me saying she fr fr she want keep her baby well she’s scared cause she ain’t want have a baby den I leave n she has no support or help den ise like I’ve thought about it too I want our baby also so throw that down the drain ….

So everytime her mother make the bush tea wybe she throws it down the drain…

fast forward her mother realize the baby didn’t die so that’s when the problems started 🤦🏾‍♂️ like she used to cook food she know her daughter can’t eat or don’t like to eat so most of the time she used to don’t eat so Ofcc uk once n a while

I started to bring her food ….but this one of the point wa ready gotten me upset she was all the way 25-27 weeks pregnant and didn’t went to the hospital yet for a check up, during them months she used to be by me cause ofc uk

I wanted to rub her belly n see the baby move and talk to the baby and especially to make sure she eats 3 or more meal a day ,

but I couldn’t take her to the clinic or hospital cause I had work and etc. and everytime she ask her mommy oh she always busy or w.e intel we ended up going ourselves 🤷🏾‍♂️ and find out out baby gender and we used to go together for the ultrasound and etc…

now fast forward the baby born was waiting on this day feel like forever but it finally came , bouncing handsome baby boy , kept in mind we already been shopping for all the baby stuffs our self before her mother or ppls even buy anything.

So that day after work I came and see my son🥺💙 and igl the moment did feel so fake but it was real …

so uk now once n a while I gin come and check up on my lil youth intel this day she come telling me how her mommy was talking about me so ise like your mommy always talking about me buii and you ritt there and ain’t defending me

Smt she start slapping up so I got upset n say send your mommy number she said no I only gin cost problems which was correct but still my point is your a grown a** woman if you have a problem or a situation with me u could always talk to me it’s that fake sh** I don’t like want talk behind my bxk and in person u eating all my wybes n smiling up n my face …

that fake asf I don’t move like that still from ya fake keep ya same energy n just don’t fw me at all simple ….

so yh I get her mommy number anyways but from someone else…*calls number *

mother – hello ?

Me – hello miss k how you doing

Mother- I’m fine hbu

Me – I’m not cause Idk why u does have the most to say behind my bxk but in my face you smiling why is that

Mother – first of all I’m still mad at my daughters pregnancy

Me – 😳😨😤😡🤯🤬 you still on pregnancy and she already had baby what type site that is 🙁(Ine say it that nice tho it was some curse words n etc🥲)

Mother- ohhh!! Your so disrespectful that’s why Ine want you around my house nahh

Me – Lmfaooo who gin stop me from coming there to see my child 🤔

Mother- une even the baby daddy and my bm In the bxk ground like mommy hang up the phone mommy hang up the phone …

now I’m like 🤔🤔🤔😐so comes to find out this ain’t my child 🤯🤧

now I trying to reach the girl I’m block on everything 🤦🏾‍♂️

so ise like she needs to answer me cause I needs to know what’s going on so I post something on Fb and tag her inside it and when it get 1 minute I deleted it

and just move on and as quick as that was someone already screenshot that , that’s why ise always say Dw shon ppl watching u …..

so three days later she unblock me arguing about the post I made but she didn’t even make it clear she just was slapping up saying if I looking for attention n thing but block me bxk before I could of even answered

so now I’m upset cause I leave you alone and u still fwm bro so ise like yanno since u want fwm imma fwu bxk so that next morning I went to her house n knock on the door n come ask her what she meaning and wa all this about

and that’s when I find out someone screenshot my post quick so and she’ll like so Ine post this last night ise like no df I post that like three days ago and In the ss the post it said a min ago that’s shows u ppl Is be watching u even when u least expected….

so now her and her mommy don’t want me see my “son” and they change his last name so therefore I basically don’t have any say over the child if it’s mines or not ….

I been tell her I want a dna test she keep saying go get one den so I went to the police station and find out wa I need for a dna test and the officer was like the child already born ?

Go to the rand and ise like sir , from I say that he cut me off or u and the bm ain’t on good terms ayee we’ll go to court and they will pay for the dna test and if it’s mines I’ll have to pay for the test but if it’s not mines den I’ll have to go in another court just so I could get reimbursed for all the things I buy for the baby

but that I wasn’t on all that run so I let it dead 🤷🏾‍♂️cause that’s too much

still now Idk what to do at this point now I’m 100% confused cause ik every baby mother wants there baby daddy there to help n support n take care of his child and from pregnancy tell birth I’ve been there for her spending money n wasting my time even when the baby born ise willing to go there on my days off from in the morning like after 8am just to watch the child so she could get some rest and try relax and yanno

I’m really trying to be in my son’s life cause even way before we had a child we both said we don’t want our child grow up without a father cause tooo much kids growing up without a father and it forcing them to turn to the streets male or female cause some females is need they father they does need that father figure in they life …

but without a father they mother struggling tryna take care of you une gin be getting everything u want or need on time that’s where they does turn to niggas n den that’s where they does start going Mia at an early age .

So yh I’m a young father ready to give up but still fighting because it was never in me to be a dead beat dad cause if that was the case from I find out u pregnant ise gone shon and that’s why I’m so confused cause I’m willing to take care my responsibilities and be a father for my son if that’s my son cause now i don’t even know ….

Now tbh I was just was gin move on and be like uk wa F*** both of them 🙂but someone send me a video on her status with her with another guy now me personally idc 😂🤷🏾‍♂️but me even tho I’m a lil hot head n have anger issues

I still does pray and ppl is say GOD is answer prays or does talk to you but idk I think me n him ain’t on good terms either n I needs to fix that but , In my head I’m saying if she’s with a next guy that fast opening her legs

that’s bad cause as a mother who just had baby Ine think u supposed to be having sex still and especially after giving birth so ise like this poor child suffering because of it’s stupid mother 🤦🏾‍♂️

cause she supposed to be focusing on being a new mother n learning new things and trying to raise her child but she’s to heartbroken and looking for someone to fill that spot and that’s sad to see especially if that’s your youth only hope.

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Our advice is for you to carefully consider the elements sounding this whole situation, and the impact that it is having on your quality of life and sanity. Pray about it, then give this situation a number of importance from 0 to 5 with 5 being most important and requires the most attention and all of your financial emotional resources combined. And zero meaning let it go in the wind.

Question: where can this man get a DNA test from in Grand Bahama?

I need some advice badly y'all Good morning , im puzzled/ lost and need some advice . I’m a father of a handsome baby boy well at least I think it’s mines, now I’ll be straight
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