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I had a good man once

I had a good man once

Good afternoon Bahama drama please give me anonymous. Because I don’t need women in here coming at me sideways and name calling.

Everyone learn from their mistakes right? And the story I’m about to tell is one of my worst.

7 years ago I met a guy at the supermarket who was shopping for groceries with his toddler in hand who he later said was now 4 years old and lived with him.

He later told me that his Mommy died giving birth to him as we got to know one another.

This guy used to cook and clean for me whenever he would visit my house he treated me like I was a princess and in doing so I thought that he was pretending just so that I can fall in love with him and then he could hurt me badly.

So no matter what good he showed me or did towards me I always kept my guards up throughout the whole relationship and when it came to seeing other people behind his back I had no problem with it because I felt as though he would hurt me anyway eventually.

Whenever I would then visit him and his 4-year-old at his house I can say that it was always immaculately clean even though he was a single father that had a toddler to take care of by himself.

Never did he ask me to babysit or to watch his child

But instead always ask me is there anything else that he could do for me and my children. And as always I responded with yes they need this and they needed that.

I was very unconsiderate of his underpaying job and him struggling to take care of his own responsibilities due to his income.

As the months passed by and he got more deeply into me I grew even further away from my feelings towards him because he was just too perfect to be real.

Later on after about a year and a half he discovered my side pieces and still forgave me after telling him that I didn’t care if he forgave me or not I was not happy with him this I said to try and break him from being the man that I thought that he was pretending to be.

But instead of just leaving me he got even sweeter bringing me flowers to my job with candy and singing telegrams and which infuriated me because now I knew that he definitely could not be real.

As my coworkers greeted me and were all happy and clapping saying what a good man I have I started to tear him down verbally to my coworkers that didn’t even know the man so far to the point that they now hated him just as I think I probably did because of his perfection.

Never in my life had someone treat me as if though I was so special that they would put everything aside just for me as if though I was the most important thing in the world to them but him.

I remember as if it was just last week that soon I cheated again on him and he caught me holding hands with a guy out to fish fry one Sunday night.

As he confronted me the guy I was with being a thug and gangster that he was he later summoned up his gang member friends and they beat this man so badly as I watched and didn’t even understand why I wasn’t sorry for him at all because to me he was one of those fake niggas who is end up hurting you.

He had to be hospitalized and his mother decided to take her grandbaby from him because he stopped going to work everyday as he used to just trying to watch me and who I was cheating on him with.

By my behavior I had now turned a decent man into a stalker and ruined his decent reputation after only a year and 6 months into the relationship boy was I toxic.

Fast forward today I’m in a relationship and have had many relationships where I was always treated like trash and even physically abused on multiple occasions by multiple men.

Kicked choked stumped and almost shot after being shot at by lover’s.

I’m not even sure who all of my children are by at this point in my life but they have people that believe they’re the fathers.

All of my children look like someone else who is probably the real father but this I tell no one but keep as my inner shame.

Thinking about that man who was so perfect that I had to destroy him. I feel some type of way today as I passed by him walking on the side of the road talking out of his head and it’s because of me why he lost his mind.

I remember reading a story on your page similar to this and I was blown away after reading it because I had done the same thing to a guy before. I couldn’t help but to think that there are a lot of people who are doing this to good men besides the me of my past.

I just hope that it doesn’t come back on me or my children because all I have are boys.

But I know that I have learned a hard lesson though and that is to allow people to be what they seem to be without casting judgment about who they’re not.

I always pray that God could forgive me for what I did.

I is even take him sandwiches whenever I see him walking or sitting on the side of the road by a building still talking to himself out of his head because of me.

One of my friends jokingly said that I should take him in and clean him up but he is way to far gone for me to fix.

And I’m woman enough to admit that I fucked up a good Bahamian man.

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Wow, that’s really heartbreaking…

I had a good man once Good afternoon Bahama drama please give me anonymous. Because I don't need women in here coming at me sideways and name calling. Everyone learn from their
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