I’m 6 months pregnant and I don’t know if my patience is just short or what?!
So BOOM!
Every-time my MIL comes over she feels like she has to be waited on and catered to!!
She can’t change the cable channel because it’s a Roku and she don’t know how Hulu live works, she’s constantly calling my children Kiya bring me a blanket!
They are in an ottoman right next to the couch!
Brooklyn fix me something to drink!
Even though she just walked outta my kitchen and surveyed everything in my fridge.
She will call me and ask if I have stuff to make sandwiches or what I’m cooking,
just for her to get there and sit on her ass scrolling on FB actually expecting me to prepare a plate or fix her a sandwich!!
If my baby shows anybody else more attention than she shows her she gets offended.
She will drop her laundry off at my house and yell on her way out of the door
“I’ll be back to get them tomorrow!”
Y’all she think I’m a 24hr cleaners!!
I have 3.5 kids, a dog and a husband!!
I can not and will not cater to a grown ass woman!!!
I don’t want my kids doing it either!!
Am I wrong y’all?
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Some people are raised in a manner where they lack empathy from the age of 2.
These people brains sometimes are wired wrong from birth also passed down by either one of their parents sometimes.
I have recently found out that my husband of almost 10 years has had an affair and now has a 9 month old baby.
I an not doing well mentally at all. He is not in the home at the moment and I cant see him . I don’t know if he’s somewhere with this other woman or not.
We honestly have not spoken much cause I think I many hurt him if I am around him. I am completely broken and shattered. We have an almost 35 year history together including the 10 years we’ve been married and have grown children.
I don’t even know what to do how to pick up the pieces at this age. Every moment I cant take it I breakdown and cry just thinking about how missed up this is at our ages.
I cant eat I cant sleep good the pain that I’m going through is showing and getting the very best of me with no end in sight except for death.
I know that others have gone through things like this and worst but when its at your doorsteps the advice that you’ve given others just don’t seem to hold up to the pressure.
I feel like I’m drowning in thin air with each passing moment and can’t breathe or think of anything besides what has happened to me for more than a minute like a movie that continues to replay over and over again and with it bring back the same kinds of pain.
Maybe death would be less painful because clearly my husband don’t love me anymore and maybe I’m not good enough for any kind of husband.
I’ve failed my marriage and I’m sorry for that. This moment I won’t survive
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God is able to pull us though only when we let go and let God be the complete choice maker of our everyday lives.
That’s when you start to bare witness to those things we humans call miracles in our lives with our situation.
And with the things that we thought had us pindown and trapped for life maybe.
God is bigger than anyone’s problems including and especially yours.
And if you let him, he can be a way maker for you to.
But remember, by our faith we are made hole again.
