How to Spot a Narcissist in the Workplace

They’re charming, polished — and quietly destructive

They walk into the room like they own it — even when they don’t.

They crave praise, dominate conversations, and turn every team effort into a one-man show.

You’re not crazy — you might just be working with a narcissist.

Narcissists don’t just exist on social media, red carpets, or in movies about broken lovers. Many are in everyday jobs, corporate offices, and supervisor roles — quietly draining the morale and mental peace of everyone around them.

1. They Think They’re the Smartest in the Room
The narcissist’s favorite subject? Themselves.
They interrupt, dismiss others, and show off — even when they’re wrong.

2. They Need Constant Validation
Praise is their oxygen. Without it, they either underperform or act out.

3. They Hijack Team Projects
Suddenly, your hard work becomes “their idea.” And if it fails? They’ll blame you.

4. They Can’t Handle Criticism — At All
Feedback becomes a personal attack. They’ll either explode or shut down.

5. They Create Drama Where There Was Peace
Narcissists stir up conflict to feel relevant and in control.

6. They Exploit Kindness and Loyalty
If you’re generous and humble — they’ll use that against you.

So What Can You Do?
Set boundaries
Stop feeding the ego
Keep records
Be direct, not emotional
Speak to HR if necessary

Final Thoughts:
Narcissists don’t destroy workplaces with violence — they destroy them with ego.

If you feel drained, confused, or consistently minimized by someone at work, trust that instinct. You’re not the problem. But you may be working beside one.